Nce cov txiaj ntsig yog lub hom phiaj tseem ceeb ntawm ib lub koom haum ua lag luam, suav nrog kev ua lag luam ib qho. Cov luv nqi, nyiaj tau tshaj thiab cov nyiaj tshwj xeeb pab txhawb tus neeg tau txais kev pab ua ib qho kev yuav khoom, kom nws ntseeg txog qhov muaj txiaj ntsig ntawm kev yuav koj cov khoom lossis kev pabcuam. Lawv pab txhawb kom muaj kev nce nqi hauv kev muag khoom, txhawb cov neeg siv khoom kom xa ntawv txuas rau qhov hluav taws xob tshwj xeeb. Cov ntaub ntawv hais txog kev txo qis ntawm tus nqi ua ntej, qhov ntau ntawm cov nyiaj cheb thiab lawv thaj chaw tuaj yeem nyiam rau cov neeg yuav khoom txaus siab, thiab koj tuaj yeem qhia lawv txog nws hauv tsab ntawv.
Cov Lus Qhia
Kauj ruam 1
Rov qab los, nyob hauv raws cov cai ntawm Kos duab. 40 ntawm Txoj Cai Them Se ntawm Lavxias teb sab, lub koomhaum kev lag luam tuaj yeem muab: cov luv nqi uas tshwm sim los ntawm lub caij nyoog hloov pauv rau hauv kev thov rau cov khoom lag luam; cov luv nqi txuam nrog qhov poob zoo lossis lwm cov neeg siv khoom ntawm cov khoom muag; luv nqi thaum tas sijhawm (ze rau hnub tim) ntawm hnub tas sijhawm lossis khoom muag ntawm lub sijhawm; cov nyiaj cheb ntawm cov qauv thiab cov qauv npaj rau kev paub nrog lawv; lwm cov nyiaj cheb muab los ntawm cov koom haum phiaj xwm kev lag luam.
Kauj ruam 2
Ua ntej sau ib tsab ntawv hais txog cov nyiaj cheb, nco ntsoov tias koj cov lus pom tias tsuas yog los ntawm kev lag luam thiab kev cai lij choj kev xam pom. Cov xwm txheej hauv qab no yuav tsum raug coj los siv: kev cai tswj hwm kev lag luam ntawm lub lag luam yog tswj hwm los ntawm cov cai hauv zej zog kev ua haujlwm ntawm lub koom haum thiab, uas muaj feem cuam tshuam nrog kev siv nyiaj cheb, yog, qhov tseeb, txhais tau tias kev tiv thaiv tsis pub them se.
Kauj ruam 3
Lub tuam txhab tuaj yeem kho ntau hom kev txo nqi nrog cov ntawv pov thawj kev cai tswjfwm kev lag luam, piv txwv li:
- nyiaj cheb rau cov nqe lus them luv;
- Cov luv nqi rau cov pawg tshwj xeeb ntawm cov neeg yuav khoom (tshwj xeeb, cov neeg yuav khoom ib txwm lossis cov neeg ua haujlwm ntawm cov tuam txhab koom tes);
- Cov nyiaj cheb tau cuam tshuam nrog kev muag, hloov kho cov khoom lag luam, muag cov khoom lag luam seem (lub sijhawm ntawm cov luv nqi no tau sau tseg);
- qhov thiaj hu Cov nyiaj so koobtsheej cov hnub so (naj hoom, paj, cawv, thiab lwm yam);
- Kev nplua thiab tiav nyiaj cheb;
- cov nyiaj cheb tshwj xeeb txuas rau qee cov lej, hnub tim (piv txwv li, kev txo nqi 13% rau 13th ntawm txhua lub hli, luv nqi 5% rau tus neeg yuav khoom lub hnub yug, luv nqi ntawm tus lej kawg ntawm tus lej hla tebchaws, 10% luv nqi rau tag nrho cov poj niam nrog lub npe Svetlana hauv chav ua kom zoo nkauj- hairdressing salon "Svetlana" thiab lwm yam kev tsim txuj ci luv nqi).
Muaj kev txo nqi dab tsi nyob hauv koj cov ntaub ntawv tuam txhab? Ua ntej xa lus, rov xyuas qhov tseeb ntawm koj cov kev lag luam.
Kauj ruam 4
Sau tsab ntawv nws tus kheej raws li cov txheej txheem ib txwm: kev taw qhia, ntu tseem ceeb thiab ntu kawg. Hauv cov lus qhia, qhia luv luv txog koj lub koomhaum, hom khoom lag luam (cov kev pabcuam), ua tiav kev ua tiav lossis lub tuam txhab lub npe nrov.
Hauv seem tseem ceeb, hais qhov tseem ceeb ntawm kev thov lag luam - qhia peb txog cov nyiaj cheb muaj. Hauv koj cov nqe lus kaw, kos kab hauv qab taw qhia qhov sij hawm ntawm tus nyiam ua ntej, hais txog cov txiaj ntsig zoo ntawm kev ua lag luam. Ua rau cov neeg siv khoom lag luam. Qee zaum cov lus "maj nrawm" yog ua rau: "Hu (tuaj) tam sim no! "," Peb tseem tos koj hu hnub no! ".
Kauj ruam 5
Cov ntawv sau zoo nyob ntawm qhov xwm ntawm koj cov khoom (kev pabcuam). Nws yog ib qho thaum nws los txog kev txo nqi ntawm ntu rau tsheb, lwm yam thaum nws los txog daim pib rau kev lom zem ntawm cov koom txoos hnub so. Thaum cov neeg tuaj saib lub hom phiaj paub (hnub nyoog, xwm txheej ntawm poj niam txiv neej, tub los ntxhais), nws yooj yim dua los xaiv cov lus ntawm koj qhov chaw nyob. Yog tias koj xaiv hom kev ua lag luam, tsis txhob hnov qab txog nws cov yam ntxwv tseem ceeb: nruab nrab lub suab ntawm kev nthuav qhia, nws txoj kev pom meej thiab meej.
