Paj Huam yog ib lo lus uas hais tau zoo nkauj thiab txaus siab. Feem ntau thaum tseem hluas, cov txiv neej hluas thiab poj niam sim lawv tus kheej hauv thaj chaw no - cov kev xav tau nraus, koj xav hais tawm, pov tawm ntawm cov cua daj cua dub ntawm txoj kev xav. Ib zaj paj lug yog qhov zoo tshaj plaws los nthuav qhia koj lub xeev siab. Txawm li cas los xij, ntau tus neeg tsis txaus ntseeg lawv tus kheej, ntseeg tias lawv yuav tsis muaj peev xwm sau, lawv tsis muaj kev paub txog lub suab, thiab lwm yam. Qhov tseeb, qhov tseem ceeb rau tus kws sau paj huam yog qhov ua rau muaj peev xwm hnov tau. Thiab cov lus yuav pom.
Tus kws sau paj huam nyob hauv txhua tus neeg. Thiab qhov tseem ceeb tshaj plaws uas yuav tsum tau ua yog qhib nws hauv koj tus kheej. Tsis txhob ntshai sau paj huam - lus sib dhos yog ceg tawv, cov nqe lus banal, zoo li hnav tawm cov ntsiab lus. Qhov no tsis yog qhov tseem ceeb. Qhov tseem ceeb yog qhov sim.
Ntau tus neeg thuam hais tias nws yuav tsum tau sib npaug nrog cov neeg muaj suab npe, cov paj huam zoo - Pushkin, Byron, Goethe … thiab lwm tus, thiab lwm tus. Tab sis nws puas yog qhov tseem ceeb? Vim li cas luam lwm tus neeg tus yam, ib tus neeg xav li cas? Thiab yog tias peb pib saib cov neeg muaj npe zoo, peb yuav tab tom pib theej lawv.
Tsim kho koj tus kheej cov qauv tshwj xeeb ntawm kev sau paj huam: koj cov lus sib dhos, koj qhov loj me. Tsuas yog los ntawm kev sim cov kev xaiv sib txawv, koj tuaj yeem nkag siab txog dab tsi tiag tiag rau koj. Nws zoo ib yam nrog cov ncauj lus: tsis txhob ntshai sau txog dab tsi ntseeg tau ua cov ncauj lus banal. Tsis muaj cov ncauj lus tsis tseem ceeb. Kev hlub, lub neej, kev tuag, kev zoo siab yog cov ntsiab lus nyob mus ib txhis. Lawv qhia meej rau txhua tus thiab txhua tus neeg. Lawv tau sau, sau txog kev hlub thiab yuav sau ntxiv txog nws. Thiab yog tias qhov ntsiab lus ze tshaj plaws rau koj hnub no yog kev hlub, sau txog kev hlub. Qhia koj cov kev xav raws nraim li koj xav kom nws ua.
Tsis txhob ntshai kev thuam. Txawm hais tias ib tug neeg tsis nyiam cov paj huam koj tau sau, qhov no tsuas yog nws kev xav. Sau rau koj tus kheej ua ntej. Txaus siab rau cov txheej txheem thiab cov txiaj ntsig. Yog ib qho ua tsis tiav, lwm tus tuaj yeem nyiam ntau pua txhiab leej.
Yog li, los hais tawm:
- Sau rau koj tus kheej, nthuav qhia koj cov kev xav thiab kev xav;
- Sau rau ntawm txhua lub ncauj lus;
- Tsim koj tus kheej tshwj xeeb style, sim;
- Siv kev thuam rau koj tus kheej lub hom phiaj, nws yuav tsum tsis txhob txwv koj txoj kev muaj tswv yim;
- Muaj kev lom zem nrog cov txheej txheem tsim nws tus kheej.
Tus kws sau paj huam nyob hauv peb txhua tus. Sawv nws hauv koj tus kheej.
